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ON LEADING

You became a leader to make a difference. You can enjoy it again.

For executive directors and leadership teams in nonprofits, youth development, and education — we use the LEAD method to help leverage experience, authenticity, and drive to elevate equity- turning the smallest shifts into massive changs for your team, your programs, and your life at home.

Twenty-plus years in this field. Executive teams call it the best professional development they've ever had.

Editorial black-and-white portrait of a woman in her late 50s, candid-feeling, looking slightly off-camera left, caught mid-thought with a warm half-smile — she sits at the edge of a worn wooden desk in a home office, one hand resting on a stack of spiral-bound notebooks, soft north-facing window light falling across her face from the left.
  • 1996 doing this work since
  • 20+ years in nonprofits, youth development, outdoor recreation, and education
  • 12 weeks tailored coaching programs for individuals and groups
  • 5 directors the average leadership team we sit beside
ON THE PATTERN

I used to like this job. Now I'm the switchboard.

First in. Last out. The hiring and firing cycle spins, people feel undervalued, and the side conversations about each other keep landing on your desk. Your directors don't talk to each other — they talk to you. About each other. Good enough is the status quo and nobody's owning the follow-through. You're not imagining the exhaustion. You're the executive director spending your days as a switchboard operator for other people's conflicts, and the strategic plan or  improvement plan is still in a binder nobody opens.

Here's the part nobody tells you: this isn't a you problem. It's a pattern. You're carrying accountability alone, there's no partner asking you the hard question on a Tuesday, and triangulation has quietly become the operating system of your leadership team. You've been trying to inspire harder when what the pattern needs is to be broken on purpose.

There is a method built specifically to break it — and it starts with the smallest shifts, not a personality transplant.

ON THE METHOD

Small shifts, observed in the moment — not another tote bag.

You don't need another conference that leaves you with a tote bag and a headache. You need a method you can pick up on Monday.

Shift decks

Strategies live in physical and virtual shift decks so you're not memorizing theory — you're running a real practice with your team this week. Small shifts compound; you pick one up, try it, and watch it gain traction toward the goals you actually care about. Think of it as the opposite of the binder nobody opens.  We have shift decks to strengthen facilitation skills and decks to strengthen coaching skills.

Overhead flat-lay shot of six index-card-sized shift decks fanned out on a worn oak tabletop, each deck held together by a thin brass binder ring — morning light rakes across the table at a shallow angle, casting long soft shadows.

Observation-Reflection

We plan together. You prepare and practice. I observe. You reflect.  You have immediate opportunities to reflect on your own skills — in the moment, not three weeks later. Skills are scaffolded weekly across a structured 12-week container, with email, text, individual and group support along the way. This is why it works differently than reading, watching, or studying alone: the reflection is coupled with planning and observations for quick accountability, personalized, and immediately applicable.

Documentary-style photograph of a real coaching session — a woman in her late 50s sits at the corner of a small conference table, mid-gesture, leaning forward as she speaks to someone across from her. Two shift decks sit on the table between them; warm afternoon light comes in from a window to the right.
ON THE OTHER SIDE

You enjoy leading again — and everyone who lives with you feels it.

  • You look forward to leadership team meetings

    You walk in curious instead of braced. Not tolerating the room — actually looking forward to it.

  • The team holds itself accountable

    Commitments stop evaporating by Thursday. The team sets its own follow-through — and has fun doing it.

  • You have energy left at home

    Leaders in this work report becoming better partners and better parents. You stop spending your evenings recovering from your days.

  • You facilitate a high-quality experience

    Confidence running team meetings, program reviews, and site walkthroughs — not just confidence on paper about them.

  • Intercultural responsiveness that's real

    Your team gains the tools and the language to lead with genuine intercultural relevancy, not a training they sat through once.

  • A quality system that runs without you

    Continuous improvement becomes a rhythm your team owns. You facilitate the experience. They lead it — you stop being it.

ON THE LEADERS WHO DID THIS

Leaders in your exact seat took the call. Here's what they said.

  • "This was the best professional development they've ever had."

    Referral language from an executive director, Youth Development Nonprofit

  • "I wish I could just keep her in my pocket or on my desk to get coaching from all the time."

    Leadership Team Director, Regional Education Program

  • "They felt like they'd tapped into the best version of themselves — even though the work was about leading their teams, not their home lives."

    Executive Director, Community Agency

  • "The shift decks changed how our leadership team practiced. Small shifts, real traction, and a team that finally holds itself accountable without me carrying all of it."

    Senior Director, Youth Development Organization

ON THE SHIFT

"I wish the board would go through a training or coaching program from bob too."

Referral language from an executive leader in the youth development sector

ON WHERE TO START

Whatever your seat, timeline, or budget — there's one obvious next step.

Coaching for Improvement

Whether you are a small organization or leading a statewide program, we can be your coaching team or help you design or strengthen your coaching team. Individual and group coaching is a minimum 12-week (or seasonal) package.  

Events, Keynotes & Emceeing

Keynotes, workshops, emceeing, and strategic planning sessions for conferences and leadership teams — designed so the room leaves with strategies to implement and cultural shifts, not just a tote bag and notes.

Shift Decks

Tangible products to help you shift, grow and challenge the status quo!  We have Shift Decks to strengthen facilitation skills and one dec kto strengthen coaching skills.

Shift Decks for individuals and teams→
ON bob

"I didn't have to have the answers, or try to inspire anyone. I learned how to be in conversations that eradicate triangulation — and that changed everything."

bob — founder of Coaching Leaders, doing this work in nonprofits, youth development, outdoor recreation, and education, since 1996

The full story of how Coaching Leaders started →
ON THE NEXT STEP

You can enjoy leading again. Let's talk about what that looks like.

Executive teams in this field have called this the best professional development they've ever had — and the referral that keeps showing up is that leaders want to keep bob on their desk.

  • A conversation about fit — not a pitch, not a script
  • Clear recommendations for your next move, whether or not we work together
  • No pressure — you leave the call with clarity either way

If the money is the snag, we'll help you think through how to get your org or your board behind it — that's part of the call.

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